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« on: February 03, 2010, 06:10:52 PM »

I just got off the phone with one of my close friends, he's very upset because he got a phone call from a girl he's only seen 3 times saying that she's pregnant and it's his. Of course the first thing I asked was did he actually believe it was his, he said he believed it about 70%, and then I advised him not to hand out any cash till he knew for sure. I also told him to tag along on the next doctors appointment, now this girl is a little obsessed with my friend so I wouldn't put it past her to get pregnant on purpose but my friend is concerned because doesn't believe in raising a child out of wedlock and would require that they were at least living together or married (its not due to religious reasons). Anyway I was curious how any of you handled having that convo if you have delt with it or what you would do in the same situation as my friend. For the women how long would you wait before telling the father (if you would tell him) and how would you feel about him pushing marriage on you?
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« Reply #1 on: February 03, 2010, 06:26:39 PM »

I wouldn't take any action before making sure it was actually mine, and if it was mine, I wouldn't immediately start living together, let alone marry. I would have no problem raising/supporting the child but I'm not committing myself to a person I can't be happy with. Assuming there's still a couple of months to go before the baby arrives, there's enough time to sort things out and see if we are actually 'meant' for each other (eg. if there is any kind of serious click besides the child growing inside her).
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« Reply #2 on: February 03, 2010, 06:27:00 PM »

Nah iv never had that happen to me but thats a fucked up situation.
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« Reply #3 on: February 03, 2010, 06:31:32 PM »

Nah iv never had that happen to me but thats a fucked up situation.

So what would you do if you were in that situation?
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« Reply #4 on: February 03, 2010, 07:14:22 PM »

It happened but it wasn't mine though.
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« Reply #5 on: February 03, 2010, 07:19:57 PM »

It happened but it wasn't mine though.
Did you wait till the baby was born to get the paternity test or did you find out another way.
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« Reply #6 on: February 03, 2010, 07:23:55 PM »

My friend found out he had a daughter when he got child support papers. He didnt even know she was pregnant because they broke up and she was out of the country.

I guess even a shitty phone convo would be better than that.
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« Reply #7 on: February 03, 2010, 07:44:48 PM »

I would be nervous as fuck.
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« Reply #8 on: February 03, 2010, 07:49:03 PM »

Did you wait till the baby was born to get the paternity test or did you find out another way.

Thankfully, she broke down and admitted it to me before the baby was born.  And yes, I was shitting bricks before she told me the truth.
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« Reply #9 on: February 03, 2010, 07:57:36 PM »

Thankfully, she broke down and admitted it to me before the baby was born.  And yes, I was shitting bricks before she told me the truth.
I feel conflicted because she was wrong for lying in the first place but at least she told the truth before the baby was born.
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« Reply #10 on: February 03, 2010, 08:14:35 PM »

Oh Im Prepared For This Phone Call....

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« Reply #11 on: February 03, 2010, 08:28:42 PM »

"MM, I know this isn't what you want to hear right now, but I'm pregnant.  And I think it's yours."

"........."

"MM, you there?"

"........do I know you?"

"DO YOU KNOW ME?!  MUTHA-"

"Yeah, I'm pretty sure you got the wrong number.  Good luck with all that though.  kthxbai."
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« Reply #12 on: February 03, 2010, 08:35:11 PM »

C'mon guys step up 2 the plate and break the cycle lawl
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« Reply #13 on: February 03, 2010, 08:40:00 PM »

"MM, I know this isn't what you want to hear right now, but I'm pregnant.  And I think it's yours."

"........."

"MM, you there?"

"........do I know you?"

"DO YOU KNOW ME?!  MUTHA-"

"Yeah, I'm pretty sure you got the wrong number.  Good luck with all that though.  kthxbai."


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« Reply #14 on: February 03, 2010, 08:44:44 PM »

I'd be embarrassed b/c it's sign of recklessness but I would man up and marry the chick eventually.
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