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« Reply #30 on: February 07, 2010, 11:35:35 PM »

i'm gon beat my kids up.
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« Reply #31 on: February 07, 2010, 11:36:57 PM »

i'm gon beat my kids up.
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« Reply #32 on: February 08, 2010, 12:10:51 AM »

Growing up I was never hit. I was mainly raised by grandparents and they're old fashioned. My grandma did the disciplining, and all she had to do was raise her voice for us to listen up and behave. At least I did. Shit, she still has us shook. Hearing the stories about getting smacked in the mouth with a spatula were enough to keep me in line.

So, I always said I wouldn't hit my kid but, when he bit me because he couldn't play with wires he wasn't supposed to...*smack* went on his bottom. And, since then, he hasn't bitten anyone. I tried the "talking to them all stern", but my kid seems like a whole different breed with all kinds of attitude. I can't stand bratty misbehaved kids who throw a fit and try to fight their parents because they can't have their way.

Maybe that time out stuff works for some kids, but not mine, he needs a good smack on his butt from time to time.
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« Reply #33 on: February 08, 2010, 12:23:21 AM »


Maybe that time out stuff works for some kids, but not mine, he needs a good smack on his butt from time to time.

And this is a parent speaking
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« Reply #34 on: February 08, 2010, 12:33:59 AM »

And this is a parent speaking
She also said she tried the alternative glynn beck
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« Reply #35 on: February 08, 2010, 12:47:52 AM »

She also said she tried the alternative glynn beck

rofl @ me being glenn beck

I guess i should call you Sarah Palin for misspelling that?
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« Reply #36 on: February 08, 2010, 12:51:43 AM »

rofl @ me being glenn beck

I guess i should call you Sarah Palin for misspelling that?
My bad my exs name is glynn so it auto-corrected it based off my phone book.
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« Reply #37 on: February 08, 2010, 12:51:55 AM »

I'm with harley. I'd never beat my children and if you think that's the only solution/punishment that works, you're wrong. The majority of the kids don't need to be beaten at all, they just need to corrected immediately and hard. Now I was born mellow, but my brother was kind of a troublemaker. Neither of us was beaten and we both came out fine. My parents didn't have to beat us because they simply knew how to get through to us and make us feel bad/guilty whenever we did something. But above all, they had one trick, the vulcan pinch. If we were acting up too much (in public or not), my dad would pinch us on a spot somewhere in the shoulder blade that's extremely sensitive. Just pinching that spot was enough to shut me and my brother up because it was like your entire body just gave out for a second.

I don't care what justifications you create for yourself, beating your child is not and should never be the first solution, nor the second or the third. There are many ways that work and if you think those are exceptions, they're not exceptions of non-beating working out, they're exceptions of good parenting, something that's seriously lacking these days.
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« Reply #38 on: February 08, 2010, 12:54:26 AM »

My bad my exs name is glynn so it auto-corrected it based off my phone book.

Understandable.  I'm assuming english isn't your first language though


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« Reply #39 on: February 08, 2010, 12:56:28 AM »

Understandable.  I'm assuming english isn't your first language though


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« Reply #40 on: February 08, 2010, 12:56:56 AM »

No disrespect but im gonna need a actual parent to come in and Co-sign dip or harley, they say beating is a horrible way to raise kids and they feel very strongly about it but neither of them have kids i was giving beatings as a kid and turned out just fine I just knew that whatever i got beat for was the wrong thing to do.
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« Reply #41 on: February 08, 2010, 12:57:19 AM »



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« Reply #42 on: February 08, 2010, 12:58:40 AM »

I'm with harley. I'd never beat my children and if you think that's the only solution/punishment that works, you're wrong. The majority of the kids don't need to be beaten at all, they just need to corrected immediately and hard. Now I was born mellow, but my brother was kind of a troublemaker. Neither of us was beaten and we both came out fine. My parents didn't have to beat us because they simply knew how to get through to us and make us feel bad/guilty whenever we did something. But above all, they had one trick, the vulcan pinch. If we were acting up too much (in public or not), my dad would pinch us on a spot somewhere in the shoulder blade that's extremely sensitive. Just pinching that spot was enough to shut me and my brother up because it was like your entire body just gave out for a second.

I don't care what justifications you create for yourself, beating your child is not and should never be the first solution, nor the second or the third. There are many ways that work and if you think those are exceptions, they're not exceptions of non-beating working out, they're exceptions of good parenting, something that's seriously lacking these days.


Excuse me Doom, but... Fuck outta here.

The idea of soft parenting, typically employed by white people (no slight to you) bears little fruit and it's nothing new, or unproven. Corrective action through spanking is the most reliable method of teaching and reinforcing respect in a household.

If you would care to come to America, we can set an experiment up. I'd be glad to, because this passive Parenthood thing folks are suggesting is laughable, and where I'm from, kids will laugh at you for even thinking it will work.  It's empathetic to the feelings of children, but entirely unrealistic when aimed at the majority.

In essence, my first sentence.... Fuck outta here.
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« Reply #43 on: February 08, 2010, 01:02:40 AM »

Understandable.  I'm assuming english isn't your first language though


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Really?
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« Reply #44 on: February 08, 2010, 01:04:31 AM »


Excuse me Doom, but... Fuck outta here.

The idea of soft parenting, typically employed by white people (no slight to you) bears little fruit and it's nothing new, or unproven. Corrective action through spanking is the most reliable method of teaching and reinforcing respect in a household.

If you would care to come to America, we can set an experiment up. I'd be glad to, because this passive Parenthood thing folks are suggesting is laughable, and where I'm from, kids will laugh at you for even thinking it will work.  It's empathetic to the feelings of children, but entirely unrealistic when aimed at the majority.

In essence, my first sentence.... Fuck outta here.

How do you mean soft parenting? You think my parents were soft on me or my brother? Not beating your child doesn't mean you're soft, there are enough other ways to go hard on your kids without physically hurting them. You need to reconsider if you think it's the only solution that can present results.

And Clayton, you don't know shit about me and harley so fuck outta here with your bullshit.
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